In a way, the ocean represents the unpredictable life. From the shore, watching the magnificent waves roll in is one thing. It's easy, effortless. Stepping into the ocean is another. And nothing can really prepare you for the felt experience of the ocean.

All that glitters is not gold, and us city people more than anyone will know some of the drawbacks that come with the tourism industry. As much as we complain, there might be some simple lifestyle changes we may not have thought of making ourselves.

Six solo trips later and there it is, the noticeable difference in my self-confidence and decision-making that sparked this incredibly positive change.